Friends are like shoes

What if friends were like shoes?

And you had to choose

just one lifelong pair?

A B.F.F.

Who’ll never leave you bereft,

A perfect fit you’ll never share.


But what if this perfect one

Had to become

The only choice for every task?

For work and for play,

To wear every day,

With every outfit

they’d have to match.


And what if you grew

And wanted to move

In a slightly different way?

Would they be rigid; ignore

Your need to explore?

Leave you rooted,

unable to play?


Or would they mould perfectly,

Let you run and be free,

Allow you to dance

and to play

and to climb?

To be the right choice,

They’d carry your voice,

Walk your walk….

In your direction

They’d proudly align.


And what would you do

If they became sore,

not brand new?

Chuck them?

Bin at sell-by date?

There are others nearby…

Different brands you can try

Quick, choose….

before it’s too late!


Wait………..

Friends are like shoes!

It’s up to you to choose.

Look around, open-eyed to enable

Each one in the selection

Their “friendship perfection.”

Invite many to talk at your table.


Discuss what you like,

See if a spark will ignite.

Explore what makes them great.

One choice for life

Will likely bring strife

Who ever heard of just one best mate?


A selection is clever,

A choice for every which weather,

A smart way to journey through.

Choose your marathon pace,

A selection to face;

To dodge the downpours of blue.


When there’s an imperfect match

Don’t dismiss, don’t detach,

Discuss……

Intend to be clear.

And face what happens if

There’s an unsolvable tiff.

Thank them,

For they brought you here.


Friends can lose their footing

Become undone; need supporting

It’s your job to step behind them in line

And when they can’t walk on further

Gather round, to let them recover

The sole of your soul,

Good friends always restore the shine

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